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…Relationships. Why do we try to differentiate relationships from friendships? The popular notion is to associate “relationships” with courtship and associate “friendships” with simple communication. Can we actually do that?

Mid last year, Randy Frazier introduced me to mind mapping. Totally cool concept. On last evening, I watched a movie that compelled me to create a mind map centralized to relationships. In my sometimes weird and very confused thinking, I couldn’t justify putting friendship anywhere else on the map other than as a provisional word for relationship within the given context. I just couldn’t do it. I could only map out a theory that said all relationships including friendships consist of love, passion, intimacy, support, trust, affection, truth, and my favorite..intense fellowship – All things that are commonly associated with relationships only. The only factor I found that could extend the arm of “Relationships” from “Friendships” was physical intimacy,which in theory could go deeper beyond common definition, but that’s another blog. I’m just a sucker for a good hug and believes that there is healing in hugging, but that’s my $.68. Besides, if you’re a great hugger then you’re just a great hugger.

Bottom line, personally, I don’t ever want the world’s “boxed’ ideas of relationships exemplified in my life. I desire those relationships that adhere more to those of David and Jonathan/ Mary & Elizabeth’s….you know those relationships sent and defined by God?. If we never share love, passion, intimacy, support, trust, affection, truth, and my favorite..intense fellowship, then we obviously don’t have a true and genuine friendship at all. We are merely individuals who possess enough intellect to hold random conversations at any given time. That’s not how I would describe my relationship with Christ, so why would I do it with any others? Ya dig?

Peace – Kimberly

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